<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Unmuted Conversations with Christel Reyna]]></title><description><![CDATA[Unfiltered Voices, Real Conversations]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 02:39:58 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[The Cost of Silence: Power, Predators, and the Women Who Were Told to Stay Quiet]]></title><description><![CDATA[There is a version of strength women are taught early. Smile. Be polite. Be grateful for the opportunity. Don’t make it awkward. Don’t make it worse. Don’t say anything you can’t take back. And above all… don’t disrupt power. Because power, historically, has not belonged to us.   What We Don’t Say Out Loud We talk about sexual assault like it’s a moment. A crime. A headline. A case. But for many of us… it wasn’t just a moment. It was a pattern. A system. A culture. A culture where men in...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/the-cost-of-silence-power-predators-and-the-women-who-were-told-to-stay-quiet</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69d466a879d08557ea806e78</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 02:08:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_1c6214a19cfc4511a03c986199cd85c5~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_496,h_318,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[My Body Was Taken, My Choice Was Not]]></title><description><![CDATA[There are moments in a woman’s life when the public conversation becomes unbearably small. Too loud, too certain, too ideological, too detached from flesh and fear and memory to hold the actual reality women live through. Reproductive rights is one of those conversations. So many people discuss it as if they are debating philosophy. As if women are abstractions. As if the body is a concept instead of a place where trauma can live for years. But when a pregnancy follows sexual assault, the...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/my-body-was-taken-my-choice-was-not</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69d4654c79d08557ea806d97</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 02:05:50 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_8f6dc7182c8e4bbd9b1b411e5efda1fc~mv2.webp/v1/fit/w_841,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who Gave You the Right to Judge Her Silence?]]></title><description><![CDATA[There is a question people ask survivors that says more about the culture than it does about the victim: Why didn’t she say something sooner? It gets asked in interviews, in comment sections, in living rooms, in workplaces, in whispers between people who think they are being reasonable. Sometimes it is framed as concern. Sometimes as skepticism. Sometimes as curiosity. But underneath it sits the same poisonous assumption: that pain has a proper schedule, and that if a woman does not reveal...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/victim-blaming-sexual-assault</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cd3d83ae89b98805dff3d8</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 15:52:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_adee58078d1d449c92678b6bb9f2a56f~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_600,h_479,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[When Silence Breaks: Dolores Huerta, Power, and theStories Women Were Forced to Carry]]></title><description><![CDATA[There are truths that do not arrive gently. They do not come wrapped in clean language and easy timelines. They do not show up when the public is ready to receive them or when critics decide the circumstances are convenient enough to believe them. They come when a woman has carried something for so long that the weight of silence becomes heavier than the risk of finally speaking. That is part of what makes the recent revelation from Dolores Huerta so devastating and so familiar. According to...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/when-silence-breaks-dolores-huerta-power-and-thestories-women-were-forced-to-carry</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69cd3bb3535e7bcd26953e06</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2026 15:42:11 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_c6fa20781c3744cc94e3969564b683b0~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_800,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[When Defending Your Child Feels Like Preparing for War]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Fear We Don’t Say Out Loud About Bullying A 12-year-old girl is gone. Twelve. A metal water bottle thrown during an altercation on a school campus ended her life. She wasn’t looking for a fight. She was defending her sister. Let that sit for a moment. She stepped in. She did what many of us have taught our children to do — protect the vulnerable. And now her mother is speaking through unimaginable grief. When I listened to that mother talk about her daughter, something inside me cracked...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/how-to-protect-kids-from-bullies</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69af9f5cc674490e6e216051</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 04:45:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_a8732bfa175840df9f843be9bd280841~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_620,h_496,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What It Means to Be Unmuted]]></title><description><![CDATA[Voice. Boundaries. Alignment. Being unmuted is not about being louder. It is about being aligned. Aligned with your truth.Aligned with your boundaries.Aligned with your lived experience. For years, many women survive by muting parts of themselves. Muting fear.Muting exhaustion.Muting ambition.Muting anger.Muting need. We mute to keep peace.We mute to avoid conflict.We mute to stay employed.We mute to protect children.We mute to survive trauma. And over time, the muted voice becomes faint. But...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/finding-your-voice-as-a-woman</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69af9e2146aa7bebcf447a14</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 04:33:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_b16b9049b5584de0a8fe6f48a6caacb3~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You Don’t Need Motivation. You Need Structure.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why High-Capacity Women Burn Out on Inspiration There is a particular insult disguised as encouragement that strong women hear often: “You’ve got this.” It sounds supportive. But when you are already carrying everything, it feels like someone handing you more weight and calling it confidence. High-capacity women do not lack motivation. We lack margin. We lack systems that protect our energy the way we protect everyone else’s. We lack support structures that match the weight we carry. And so...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/structure-for-overwhelmed-women</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69af9cccc674490e6e215c0d</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 04:27:41 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_69c82535d93740fa97088986aa188385~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_960,h_540,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Women Who Sit in Their Cars Before Going Inside]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Five-Minute Pause No One Talks About There is a ritual millions of women share. They park. They turn off the engine. And they sit. For five minutes. Sometimes ten. Sometimes longer than they planned. It is not laziness. It is not avoidance. It is not procrastination. It is survival. Because once that door opens— Mom.Dinner.Homework.Bills.Laundry.Emotions.Noise. And before that, there was: Boss.Deadlines.Emails.Performance.Strategy.Composure. The car becomes the in-between. The only quiet...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/overwhelmed-working-mom</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69af9b330c1a368a2fa54acb</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 04:22:04 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_b7251b481dc947729f3182de5e4c5c6f~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_612,h_344,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hyper-Independence Is a Trauma Response]]></title><description><![CDATA[When Strength Becomes Armor There is a difference between independence and hyper-independence. Independence says: “I can handle this.” Hyper-independence says:“I have to handle this because no one else will.” One is empowerment. The other is protection. And for many strong, high-functioning women, the line between the two became blurred long ago. Where It Begins Hyper-independence is rarely a personality trait. It is usually a learned survival strategy. Maybe it was childhood pressure.Maybe...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/hyper-independence-is-a-trauma-response</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69af99060c1a368a2fa546a8</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 04:13:46 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_740da5d36dde4130905543dc9b3218ea~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_622,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[High-Functioning Doesn’t Mean You’re Not Drowning]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Silent Struggle of Women Who Perform Well Under Pressure There is a particular kind of woman who scares burnout. Because she doesn’t look like she’s burning out. She shows up early.She meets deadlines.She remembers birthdays.She packs lunches.She leads meetings.She answers emails at 10:47 p.m.She smiles in photographs. She is high-functioning. And high-functioning women are rarely asked if they are okay. Because they look okay. But high-functioning does not mean regulated.It  does not...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/high-functioning-doesn-t-mean-you-re-not-drowning</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69af95a1de5ad9153e0c59fe</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 03:58:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_5cd1d32c85aa4df481fde1664052c48f~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Cost of Being the Strong One]]></title><description><![CDATA[When Everyone Leans on You — and No One Asks Who’s Holding You There is a particular compliment women receive that feels like praise but lands like pressure. “You’re so strong.” It is usually said with admiration. With awe. With a kind of reverence. But what people don’t realize is that for the woman who hears it over and over again, it begins to feel less like affirmation and more like assignment. You’re strong. So you’ll handle it. You’re strong. So you won’t break. You’re strong. So you...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/the-cost-of-being-the-strong-one</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69af9536c674490e6e214d74</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 03:52:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_cc6db95d64d245a897fb61273a4e5501~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_975,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The On–Off Switch:          Imposter Syndrome in the Midst of Chaos]]></title><description><![CDATA[Imposter syndrome in women leaders and caregivers]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/the-on-off-switch-imposter-syndrome-in-the-midst-of-chaos</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69aa7ad595f8968663570046</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2026 06:59:11 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_26c992b1f50b44ada4ee4e9e37155592~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[UNMUTED: Why Women Are Done Carrying the System Alone]]></title><description><![CDATA[Image by Noelle Mirabella Photography There comes a moment in a woman’s life when she realizes she is exhausted — not because she is weak, but because she has been strong for far too long without support. This is that moment. Across this country, women are holding families together, keeping households running, showing up to work, caring for children, aging parents, partners, communities — often while quietly carrying grief, fear, financial strain, and invisible responsibilities no one sees....]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/unmuted-why-women-are-done-carrying-the-system-alone</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69aa7879b5dd058733486c24</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2026 06:55:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_230e0cc4cad94eaa9262a0de72038a96~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Unmuted with Christel]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you found this space… I don’t believe it was by accident. Maybe you’re sitting in your car for a few extra minutes before going inside — because once you walk through that door, everyone will need something from you. Maybe you’re folding laundry, answering emails, helping with homework, checking bank balances, replaying conversations… wondering how you became the strong one for everyone. Or maybe you’re lying awake at night — exhausted, but unable to sleep — because your mind won’t stop...]]></description><link>https://www.unmutedwithchristel.com/post/unmuted-with-christel</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a10ddefa78e209eb89f5af</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2026 04:57:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/39c4e1_d7f24c7b804d4290a6b1fbc588d8b238~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Christel Reyna</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>